OBITUARY
Donna DeSando
August 18, 1945 – January 28, 2017
Donna Rae DeSando, 71, of Southington, passed away on Saturday, Jan. 28, 21017 at HCC at Bradley Memorial. She was the beloved wife of Lawrence DeSando. She was born in Stroudsburg, PA on Aug. 18, 1945, the daughter of the late Colonel (USAF) Milton Pollen and Marie (Hagerman) Pollen. Her father's career in the military enabled her to travel throughout Western Europe where she attended H.H. Arnold High School in Wiesbden, Germany. Donna eventually returned to the U.S where she later graduated from the University of Missouri. She also received a Maters in Literature from Wesleyan University. Donna had an extensive career in education beginning with teaching elementary and middle school in Virginia . She married Larry DeSando in 1970 and moved to Southington, CT where she continued teaching for 38 years retiring in 2005. Donna instilled her love of history and English to her students. After retirement she continued in Education working for various colleges as a Student Teacher Supervisor. Donna will be greatly missed by her husband Larry and her sister, Sue Pollen of Venice, FL and her cousins as well as her many close friends who enjoyed her wit and generous spirit. A memorial service will be held on Wednesday, Feb. 1, 2017 at 11 am at the DellaVecchia Funeral Home, 211 N. Main St. Southington. Burial will be at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to Donna's favorite charity; St. Jude's Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105
Services
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Memorial Service
Wednesday, February 1, 2017
Memories
Donna DeSando
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ADD A MEMORYJeffrey Mackay
February 11, 2017
My sympathy to the family of one of my favorite teachers from elementary school. Mrs DeSando was my 5th grade teacher and I remember everything about her classroom and about my year as a 5th grader. She was a wonderful teacher and she is already missed by me. God bless.
Pamela Slocum
February 9, 2017
I met Donna while i was working at her one and only hair salon, Carmela's.i was always in awe of her perfectness; hair, make up, shoes, bag, chic clothes but most impressed by her knack for including me in conversation, her genuine interest, her love for reading, sharing discussing all things, now that is class. I'm sorry we no longer will experience her and most sorry I didn't share these feelings with her, please know how much I adored her every visit. I was lucky to know your Donna. Pamela Slocum.
Tom Muldoon
February 5, 2017
Donna
was a friend from first time we met in WHS and many of my post WHS
memories included Donna. In our college years during summers in D,C, we
used to head downtown to Georgetown after parties or weddings; we went
to lunches together during the class reunions when she wanted to shop
instead of sightseeing, and I used to accompany her so she could do it.
So many memories of a wonderful friend and person. I'm sad that I won't see her smiling face at the next reunion or ever again.
Tom Muldoon
Elaine Bruemmer
February 3, 2017
My
heartfelt condolences to you and your family Larry. Sending prayers and
healing thoughts to you.Her beautiful memory will live within your heart
forever.
Elaine Bruemmer (Stan's cousin)
Bob and Marie Bafuma
February 1, 2017
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We remember Donna as a gracious woman and a dedicated teacher. With sincere sympathy.
sandy Whalen
January 31, 2017
I met Donna in 1960 when we both attended Gen. H.H. Arnold High School. She also lived down the street on the economy and we spent many after school hours together. She was a wonderful, vibrant part of our class. We always enjoyed her love of fashion, shopping and did I mention shopping? She will be truly missed but remembered with great fondness and live. She fought a hard fight with cancer, but it's a relentless disease. Rest In Peace WARRIOR. :two_hearts:
Patty Egidio
January 31, 2017
Lit a candle in memory of Donna DeSando
Bobbi Merritt Greene
January 31, 2017
Donna was such a vibrant woman, with a wonderful sense of humor and she was a very dedicated teacher. Our WHS class of '63 was blessed to have her as a classmate. My thoughts and prayers are with her husband, sister and other family members. Bobbi Merritt Greene.
Mary Cibulsky
January 31, 2017
Hoping you can find comfort in the memories of the life you shared together.
Mary Cibulsky
January 31, 2017
Lit a candle in memory of Donna DeSando
Nancy Namm
January 31, 2017
We're so sorry for your loss. Donna was a HS classmate and always attended the reunions. She will be missed by us all. Sincerely, Nancy Namm
Tammi Jordan
January 30, 2017
My Heartfelt Condolences, I've known Donna for a short period of time, but in that short time it's like I have known her forever, such a sweet caring woman who will be truly missed by everyone she came in contact with. We will miss you Donna, Rest Sweet Angel
Betty Poulos
January 30, 2017
Rest In Peace, my beautiful, beloved friend. You fought a tough battle, and you are finally at peace. I will miss your kindness, sense of humor, and advice. Love you forever. :purple_heart: Betty Poulos